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Tips to Help Boost Your Libido

Among some of the aspects that determine an excellent relationship, sex has to be in the top three. A relationship shouldn’t be based on sex alone; however, poor sex drive can affect your relationship. Thus, for a healthy relationship, couples need to have a healthy sex life as well. There are numerous things you can do to assist with improving your libido.

Here is a list of some of the easiest measure to help with your sex drive:

Be Real with Your Partner

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One factor that can affect your libido is lack of desire towards your partner. Most of the time when couples disagree, there is a slight loss of interest in each other, especially if you do not meet eye to eye on the issue at hand. To keep your relationship solid even after such, you need to be honest with your partner. The more you open up to each other, the more you build a stronger bond. Something like makeup sex is often underrated but comes in handy when you want to maintain your desire for each other, even when you do not agree on issues.

Try Something New

One misconception that people have is that trying something new will make their partner think ill of them. However, it all depends on how you approach the matter. For instance, if your partner has no problem watching porn, you can ask them to watch a clip with you. Steamy scenes from the video are enough to get both of you in the right mood. You can also decide to do some role play of your favorite porn video, if possible. Sex is all about being adventurous and intimate with your partner. Therefore, it is also necessary to keep everything spontaneous.

Masturbation

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Studies have shown that regular masturbation increases the blood flow to your penis. Thus, improving your sex drive and making you have a lasting erection compared to before. You also get to boost your overall well-being as well as your sex life.

Oral & Morning Sex

Starting your morning in a joyful and exciting mood is enough to leave you productive for the entire day. A good ‘morning glory’ session is enough to leave you yearning for your partner while you go on with your daily routine. Including oral sex to the mix guarantees intense levels of arousal, boosting your libido. If you have never tried oral sex, you should give it a try and see what you have been missing.

If your partner is not interested in improving your sex life or making it exciting, the tips above are less likely to work. Sex requires two willing parties for it to be enjoyable and benefiting. You need to have excellent mental health, as well. With that being said, keep your head in the game, and all will be alright.

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How to Be a Great Sexual Partner

No one is born knowing how to pleasure their potential sexual partner or partners. However, that doesn’t mean that one cannot learn how to be an excellent sexual partner. Like any other area that requires expertise, for you to be good in bed, you need the right information and some practice as well.

If you have a loving and understanding partner, you are going to have an easy time improving your sex game. This is because they will assist in the betterment of your game. Since your partner understands their body better, they will let you know what to do and what mistakes to avoid in the process. Below are some detailed tips to help you become better in bed.

Talk to a Close Friend

For most guys, talking about sex with friends can help them get a clue of what one is supposed to do. However, you cannot always take the word of a friend since you do not know if they may be exaggerating or if the same techniques will work on your spouse. For ladies, it’s easier since pleasuring a man is not as challenging as pleasuring a woman.

Watch Porn

I’m sure you are wondering how watching two people having sex will help. Well, similar to how kids imitate their favorite fight scenes in action movies, it is easy for you to pick up some tips and techniques to try on your spouse. In case your partner is not comfortable with any of the actions, you have the option of asking them for some pointers. If you can build a healthy relationship, it is easy to build a healthy sex life as well.

Ask Your Spouse to Help


Some of the people in relationships are surprisingly shy of asking their partners for help, especially male partners. Such a trait will end up costing you a relationship that could have been easily saved. As long as your partner loves you, they will do whatever they can to help you get better in satisfying them.

Research Online

If for some reason you are too shy to ask, you can use the internet to your advantage. There are numerous tips online to help satisfy your partner, from both men and women. The internet allows you to be anonymous and allows you to get into detail about any questions you may have.

Workout

Yes, working out will play a significant role in boosting your strength and stamina. With improvements in the mentioned areas, you will notice a difference in your sex life. You will be able to last longer and stay harder than before.

I hope the information above helps you become better and offer sexual satisfaction to your partner. Keep in mind that we all have to learn for us to understand, and a great way of learning includes asking for help.