Among some of the aspects that determine an excellent relationship, sex has to be in the top three. A relationship shouldn’t be based on sex alone; however, poor sex drive can affect your relationship. Thus, for a healthy relationship, couples need to have a healthy sex life as well. There are numerous things you can do to assist with improving your libido.
Here is a list of some of the easiest measure to help with your sex drive:
Be Real with Your Partner
One factor that can affect your libido is lack of desire towards your partner. Most of the time when couples disagree, there is a slight loss of interest in each other, especially if you do not meet eye to eye on the issue at hand. To keep your relationship solid even after such, you need to be honest with your partner. The more you open up to each other, the more you build a stronger bond. Something like makeup sex is often underrated but comes in handy when you want to maintain your desire for each other, even when you do not agree on issues.
Try Something New
One misconception that people have is that trying something new will make their partner think ill of them. However, it all depends on how you approach the matter. For instance, if your partner has no problem watching porn, you can ask them to watch a clip with you. Steamy scenes from the video are enough to get both of you in the right mood. You can also decide to do some role play of your favorite porn video, if possible. Sex is all about being adventurous and intimate with your partner. Therefore, it is also necessary to keep everything spontaneous.
Studies have shown that regular masturbation increases the blood flow to your penis. Thus, improving your sex drive and making you have a lasting erection compared to before. You also get to boost your overall well-being as well as your sex life.
Oral & Morning Sex
Starting your morning in a joyful and exciting mood is enough to leave you productive for the entire day. A good ‘morning glory’ session is enough to leave you yearning for your partner while you go on with your daily routine. Including oral sex to the mix guarantees intense levels of arousal, boosting your libido. If you have never tried oral sex, you should give it a try and see what you have been missing.
If your partner is not interested in improving your sex life or making it exciting, the tips above are less likely to work. Sex requires two willing parties for it to be enjoyable and benefiting. You need to have excellent mental health, as well. With that being said, keep your head in the game, and all will be alright.